How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is the dirtiest thing you have allowed your husband to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What might be the social consequences of an ethnic as opposed to a civic conception of the nation?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What does a passable feminine crossdresser look like?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I get over a break up?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why does my cat get anxious during loud noises like thunderstorms or firework displays? Is this a common behavior for cats, and is there a way to help them cope with it?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Atheists, there is a god up there in heaven and he loves you so much that he sent his son to die the worst death imaginable and then to turn into a zombie all to save you from sin. Why do you reject him?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does the potential of making Star Wars R-rated movies depend on whether Star Wars have stories that is too dark for PG 13 in Disney?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What happens if a parent refuses to let their child be transgender? What happens if the parent tries their hardest not to allow their child to be trans, like flushing every bottle of their trans child's HRT down the toilet?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Do you have any fantasies you are ashamed of?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Procrastinates a lot.

What melts your heart every time without fail?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

That's it for today.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?